Tuesday, May 21, 2013

May 20, 2013



This week has been a little crazy, both good and bad. We had so many lessons either set up or had a possibility of setting up, but almost all of them fell through. The two investigator lessons that did go through were complete opposites.

We taught I. again on Wednesday. We planned to get to the church a little early so that we could set everything up and make sure that everything was in place for the church tour. That plan went a little awry. Right before, we were tracting on a random street, and there was a guy walking up and down the street, with a little boy that turns out to be his nephew. Usually, I have a hard time approaching someone just walking on the street, but we had seen him two or three times, so I decided to cross the road to talk to him. Turns out, he is one of our potentials. He lost contact with the elders who used to cover this area, and his information isn't in our area book at all. So finding him was a miracle. He seems to be really interested, we just have to find a time to teach him. He really doesn't know when we can, because he is looking for work and his schedule is never the same., Anyway, it made us late to set up for I.'s lesson. He didn't seem very interested and a little preoccupied, but he did want to see the building, so we took him on the church tour. It was a little distracted, because he kept bringing things up like The Da Vinci Code. At the end, while we were in the chapel, everything started to fall apart. I love the member that we were with dearly, but I think she might have had a bad day or been under a lot of stress. She really started pushing him on church attendance. Even after we sat down to finish the lesson, she wouldn't let it go and basically told him that he was ignoring the Spirit. At the same time, I. had some very specific questions he wanted to ask, but couldn't get out, because the member kept interrupting him and us. He got very frustrated. Eventually we were able to begin to address his questions, specifically about the Godhead. We gave him some chapters to study and told him that we would teach him more about the Godhead next time. Looking back, we can see that this has been a concern for a while now. Apparently, both the lessons that were taught before I came involved the Godhead and the first lesson I taught did as well. My companion and I honestly felt like we nearly lost him with that lesson, and we were very worried about the next one. We shouldn't have been. Thursday, he called us up and told us he didn't want to meet with us anymore. He said that he appreciated us, but that we weren't professional enough and didn't show enough concern towards him. While we take these concerns at face value, Sister C and I believe that while we could have done better, I. was looking for a reason to get out, and this provided an easy one. He just wants a philosophical discussion, and we were trying to help him change for the better. So we probably would have had to place him in a reflective pool pretty soon. He did say that he is still going to read the Book of Mormon, so there is a little bit of hope for him.

Our other lesson was with Y. It also involved a church tour, but it couldn't have turned out any different from I.'s. Last week, we asked her to start reading the Book of Mormon from the beginning, specifically 1 Nephi 1-2. She loved it. She was drawing all the parallels between her life and Lehi and Nephi's experience. She even said her husband was a little like Laman and Lemuel sometimes. We hadn't even taught her about applying the scripture stories to her life. She is honestly amazing. She absolutely loved the church tour. We talked to her a lot about how this is all because God loves her. She loved the Young Women's and Young Men's programs and the Relief Society theme. She really really really wants this, she is still just hesitant in talking to her husband about coming to church! She felt the Spirit so strongly, especially in the chapel. She committed to talk to her husband this week sometime, so she should be coming to church really soon! President T is coming to our next lesson with her, and hopefully, he can help give her the extra assurance that she needs, because his family had a similar situation at one point. He has also agreed to give her a blessing if she wants one. She is so close! She just has to come to church!

We also had some less active/recent convert lessons. We never seem to have a problem getting those lessons done. We hit or exceed our goal every week. But we never seem to get our goal for investigators, even though that is our main focus. We usually have the appointments, but they almost always fall through! It's really frustrating, especially now that we aren't teaching Ifti anymore, we really only teaching Y. But we have some wonderful finding ideas that we are going to be putting into play within the next month or so.

The first one is a 40 day fast. The idea is that every day, a member or family will fast for missionary work and for the opportunity to do their own missionary work. Then either the elders or we will visit with the person or family and share a spiritual thought and see if they have any referrals for us or people that they have had experiences with that we could teach. Sister C has done this in other areas and it has been really successful. It's also a good way to get members involved, especially with the changes we have made to our dinner calendar.

The other one is kind of my brain child. In the front of the planner, there is a list of finding ideas, and one of them is a fireside. So at the end of June, we are going to have a fireside on Faith in Jesus Christ. President and Sister T are going to come speak and we are going to get as many people who live in the Surrey 1st ward boundaries in the chapel as we possibly can. The ward has also decided to do a potluck kind of thing afterwards, so that we can keep people there and talk to them. I really think that this will be good. This has also been incredibly successful in other areas, and we are talking to other missionaries who have done similar things and figuring out how we want to get people there and let them know about it. It is going to be really good.

Some people really have an interesting perspective on us. Last night, we knocked on the door of a man who really doesn't like Mormons. He claims to know all about us, but here's the funny thing. We started off by identifying ourselves as missionaries from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We talked a little about prophets and he asked who our current prophet was, so we told him it was Thomas S Monson. It wasn't until we mentioned Joseph Smith that he realized who we were. For someone who know all about the church, he is missing some crucial facts, like our name! He is also of the opinion that Utah lives in the medieval times still and that girls are all but imprisoned. When I told him I was from Utah, he was very shocked, and asked me how I managed to escape. At the same time, it was very sad. He was adamant that God exists, but that you can't know anything through the Spirit and that we are completely deluded. It's sad, but we tried. He just doesn't want to listen.

Hopefully, this week will have a lot more lessons! We really need the investigators.

I love you all,
Sister Peterson


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